What are the odds of a boss secretary affair? I'm not a secretary and my boyfriend doesn't have one but he read something that said most people cheat with their personal trainers or secretaries. What are the odds of that? Do you think that's true? |
I worked for a educational software development firm when I was just out of college as a PA to the managing director. He was a sweet guy in his mid 30's married with a young son. He was a total nerdy boffin and his wife was a lot older than him and he wasn't getting any at home. He got a huge crush on me and I did kind of like him but things never went any further than a sneaky kiss at the christmas party! When he told me he had fallen in love with me I found another job!
So yeah I would say it happens a fair bit. |
What is the probability of a secretary having an affair with the boss? no matter how faithful the husband is...
can he start to cheat if the secretary is really gorgeous?or if not gorgeous, really know how to treat a man...?
is it true that some secretary love to seduce the boss in order to get a rich husband ( boss must already have a stable career) |
| If the wife isnt making him happy a woman doesnt have to look that good to get him.Get the book, the proper care and feeding of husbands. |
If my boss and the secretary are having an affair and she was given a promotion because of it over me .? And I have reported this to upper management and Hr and it was covered up . Now I'm the victim of harassment . I would like to know if I'm protected by Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. I"m thinking about filling discrimination with the EEOC and the FCHR. |
| Finding someone who will do the right thing is hard. You may have to go outside your organization. It does sound like unlawful discrimination. However, if you are vindicated, you may end up with your boss's job :) |
How do report a boss having an affair with the secretary and giving her special promotions? I hope you all understand my question but here it goes(im so upset)....How do you report a boss having an affair with the secretary and giving special promotions etc, but keep in mind the boss is good friends with the people we need to report this to (his upper managment)..she came to several of us and told us that she is about to black male him and that she has a book of infomation on times and places she was with him and other important info...but anyway, if he did not give her a job that became vacant...she did not qualify for the job, but did get it..and the person who was hired for the position was called and told another person got the job..what can we do to report this? |
| IDK but that chick sounds like a whoooa |
( A Joke ) Sarah a secretary was having an affair with her boss.? Sarah walked into her boss's office and said, "I'm afraid I've got some bad news for you"
"Sarah honey, why do you always have to give me bad news?" he complained. "Tell me some good news for once."
"Alright, here's some good news," said the secretary. "You aren't sterile....."
No more jokes tonight folks. Im in Ireland and its 11.00 pm, Im off to bed. Thanks for all your great responses tonight. |
im in ireland tooo
woooooo go us
i dnt live here though:( |
My partners sister is married and having an affair with her boss? my partners sister is a legal secretary and works for a big legal firm in the city of London, this is her 4th job she has been in and had affairs at all her jobs . Her husband is a jack the lad builder and is quite rude and has an attitude, but i don't feel sorry for him as just thinks of money. Is this the normal way of life of people that work in the legal profession or is it the only way to get one foot in the door ? |
| Has nothing to do with the job, (unless she is trying to "catch" herself a professional man), she is just not happy in her marriage. She probably wants to land a guy in the law profession before she dumps her rude crude husband. She probably changed jobs when she found out the target in question was not going to leave his wife, or he was not interested in a permanent relationship with her. I would not call this normal in any profession. It does sound normal for her. |
There are rumours (quite well substantiated) that a manager here is having an affair with a secretary...? If you were HR Manager, mention it to him and/or his boss? |
With the facts that have been presented I would consider the following:
1. What is the company policy? This should be the main driving factor for your actions.
2. How close is your relationship with this manager? Can you have an off the record conversation? Aware of course that as an HR person nothing is really off of the record.
3. How responsible are you for the personal reputation of this manager? (going back to item 1 first)
4. Personally - unless the policy demands it I would NOT go to his boss unless the couple are performing/acting out inappropriately at work (fondling, etc)
Good luck! |