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Did you get spankings as a guy? Often? Are you male or female? How old are you? I wonder if that impacts if we spank our own guyren or not. I used to get by butt torn up occasionally with a belt but I oppose spanking. | | Different strokes for different folks. I got spanked but I decided not to have guys so I don't have to worry about it either way. You chose the burden of guys you chose the path to raise them simple as that. If you chose not to spank and you are wrong then it falls squarely on your shoulders for there success or failure either way it is still your Onus and the guy either suffers or succeeds based upon your decisions. Male by the way but I don't see the point of sex mattering one way or the other. | What is your opinion of adult spankings or whippings? A. People involved in this is absolutely wierd and nuts and needs psychiatric help.
B. I am not involved with it myself,but it is ok to be involved with this as long as you don't push it on others or force anyone into something they don't want and both husband and wife involved are consentual to it.
C. I am curious about it and am open to it as long as everything is consentual.
D. I get into it and the spankings/whippings are mild.
E. I get into it and the spankings/whippings are severe.
Are you male or female? | | i say letter D and i am female!!!! | Teenagers, Do you Still Get Bare Bottom Spankings? I'm 15 year old male and still get bare bottom spankings with either a brush or belt. Do any of you other teenagers still get punished this way? My mom punishes my sister who is 13 the same way. Also we get spanked in the living room in front of each other and then we have to stand in the corner for the rest of the night with our pants off. It sucks. | never got them in the first place. My parents aren't perverted psychos.
I'm confused. Just a while ago you were doing a college paper on spanking. You're in collage at 15? Really? And you still live at home and get beaten and humiliated by your parents? From looking through your questions about your sister walking in on you, nurses giving you a shot in your @ss, and your penis exams you seem to enjoy being humiliated.
So does this completely innappropriate, vile and disgusting punishment actually happen or do you just wish it did? | Do women like being dominated by their male counterparts? well i certainly do. in all the relationships i've been in so far i've been the one taking all the spankings, having my hair pulled and getting my clothes ripped off. and i love it that way. is that a strange fetish or is it perfectly normal for a woman to be dominated by a man? | | Not weird at all, my girlfriend loves it. | Punishment spankings? Everytime I recieve a spanking, about 15 minutes to half an hour after the spanking is over with my butt no longer hurts, but I have an intense pain in my ball sac, even though it was not hit at all. The pain in my groin area lasts for an hour or two, than goes away & everything is all good. Any idea why this happens & what would cause this? If it matters I am a 24 year old male and the spankings are given on my boxers laying on the bed with my butt propped in the air by resting on pillows, and given using the belt. They're given to me by a friend of mine anytime I screw up & need to be punished for it. | | Might be more teh position than the punishment. Have a testicular ultrasound dome. Sounds like it may be variococeles. No worries, they're benign. All the harm they do is make you take a sitz bath whenever they start aching. | How to either punish or reinforce a cat's behavior? I have a 15 year old orange male Tabby cat. His name is Nikki. He is my fiance's cat. My fiance had left hm at his dad's house when he moved in with me, but then his dad passed suddenly so we had to take him in. Nikki took to me very fast and we are both happy for that. Of course, as with all pets, he does have a couple behaviors we don't like.
- Scratching on the carpet instead of his pole. He is not declawed and we will never get him declawed.
- Meowing a lot at night or first thing in the morning. We get up at 2am-4am for our jobs.
We have tried being stern in tone, giving him taps and light 'spankings', spraying him with water, and even ignoring him as forms of punishment. As for positive reinforcement, we have tried to praise him, give him treats, pet him, and just over all be nice and loving. We do love him very much, but it is really only those two behaviors we want him to stop. Especially since we live in an apartment.
Any ideas? Suggestions? Tips? | As you probably know, cats are very independent, stubborn creatures. However, they certainly CAN be trained -- more so than most people think -- if you treat them accordingly.
You're on the right track, or so it sounds. How long have you had the cat? If it's been less than a month, he may still be adjusting. Excessive meowing is usually a cat's way of expressing that he wants something -- usually attention. He's likely still looking for his prior owner.
I guess you could say I'm an "amateur cat trainer", because I have two cats who are trained rather like dogs -- they come when called, play fetch, bring me toys on command, lie down when ordered, go to their room when commanded, etc. I'm no expert, but I firmly believe cats can be trained if you just form a strong bond of trust and go about it the right way.
Cats train best through positive reinforcement. Because of their independent natures, if they don't have a strong bond with you, they won't obey you. For instance, my cats won't obey even the simplest commands when given by a stranger, even for a treat. In addition, they tend to ignore you if they've been recently scolded, unless the scolding was done in the right way ("No!" then diversion or ignored).
Which of you has the strongest bond with the cat? That one should probably do the training. You must never yell at the cat, but instead when the cat is misbehaving tell him No! and if he's scratching, move him to his pole. If he's meowing tell him No! then distract him with something else -- a toy, preferably, that he enjoys. I've found success teaching my cat to be silent, by placing her in "timeout" (the bathroom, with the light on and door closed) until she quiets, then letting her out and giving her positive reinforcement (petting and attention). This worked fairly quickly, though it was nervewracking the first few times.
If your cat is lonely, a radio playing softly in another room might help. Oh, and a carpet runner might help -- we did this with one cat that just refused to use the pole no matter what -- it's a carpet runner that's a thin rough scratchy black indoor/outdoor carpet piece, we got for $5 from walmart and laid on the floor in an area he liked to scratch, then gradually moved to an out-of-the-way area. He loved the texture of it so much that it's his only scratching place now. Might help :) | They boy that killed 2 people over 1000 spankings: Opinions? Have you heard about the 8 year old boy that killed his father and a lodger in the home supposedly because of 1000 spankings? I was reading the article and was surprised at comments online like:
"This is very sad and I hope the law takes into consideration the special motivations that led this guy to murder his abusive father."
This is my comment on the thing:
"Am I the only one that thinks the guy is full of crap? 1,000 seems like an awfully nice big, round number for a guy to pick out of his head. To an 8 year old, 1000 is basically as big as it gets. The guy "Supposedly" kept track of all his beatings in a ledger - supposedly... So where is this ledger and if it exists, are there really that many spankings? Was the boy really beaten or did he just get smacks on the back of his head or his bottom? There's a difference. And, even if this guy was abused, how is he absolved of a double homicide? Why didn't he report it to a teacher first? Plus, there is no mention in any article I read that the 39 year old male ever even touched him. So, why did the boy kill him if he killed his dad because of ''beatings''? Two people are dead, and we're upset that a guy got smacked?"
Does anyone else agree with me?
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To read an article on the story:
www.digitaljournal.com/article/26… | Lets be rational for just a second .....this guy was "supposedly " beaten over a 1000 times and NO ONE ever noticed.
Did he live in a bubble? Have no contact with the outside world?
Has never attended a family gathering? Had no loving relative at holidays
with a camera? No one ever saw him at school, the park , the doctor's office?
Even if he was home schooled he had to have paperwork filed
with the state and physical exams done , shot records provided or
signed waivers .
I home schooled 2 teenagers and know that system-it isn't as isolated as many imagine.
Something smells with this whole case (like a well paid lawyer ).... how did this guy kill two people so easily ? One I can see if you fear for your life but TWO that takes aim and steadiness of nerves I really just can't fathom. | My dog is attached to his food bowl? My 2 year old Shih-tzu male is attached to his food bowl. I never bother him when he is eating, but when he finishes, I like to take his plate up and wash it. When I reach for it, he growls and shows all of his teeth and there is nothing left in his plate. I have to get the broom and rake the plate to me and while I am doing this he is barking and constantly biting at the broom. We go through this everyday, every week, every month. How can I break him from being attached to his bowl. I even tried changing bowls but it did not help. And he won't take spankings. He bit at me once and I popped his behind with newspaper and he bit my leg and drew blood. He is a wonderful dog otherwise and long as you do not mess with his food bowl. | The problem is that your dog thinks that he is the alpha dog(he is the boss). With his condition being as serious as to draw blood when he doesn't get his way, he HAS to be put into his place before he harms you or someone else again. First of all, put a muzzle on him for your safety while training him. The only way to train a dog that will actually bite you is to be extremely assertive with him, he needs to know that you will not back down and will not allow him to be the alpha anymore. With his muzzle on(and leash), place the food bowl down and make him sit by it. As soon as he growls, you need to grab him by the scruff of the neck, flip him onto his back and pin him there until he submits(relaxes without moving). He is going to raise hell, but just remember that you are not hurting him and NOT to give in. If he is extremely aggressive, this may take ten minutes or more. This sounds violent, but it is exactly how dogs tell eachother (in thier own language) that they are the boss, and the only language that he will understand. If you don't feel comfortable with this, you need to take him to a professional trainer so they can show you what to do in person or train your dog for you. A biting dog is always a very serious problem, no matter what the circumstance. And you can NEVER train a biting dog not to bite by using treats. Watch the TV show, "The Dog Whisperer." He deals with aggressive dogs on almost every episode and teaches all kinds of ways reinforce your role as the pack leader. Other things you need to do with assertive dogs is to make them sleep in a crate (instead of in your bed where you are considered his litter mate instead of the alpha). The alpha dog always sleeps on a higher spot then the rest of the pack. Don't let him control your walks, walk him and not the other way around. Do not "free feed" him. Feed once or twice a day. Always feed him after you are finished eating(beta dogs eat last and only when pack leader says). And ALWAYS make him sit and wait to eat until you say it is OK(after he gets over the initial shock of not being the alpha anymore). You may need to repeat the training process over and over a few times until you can get him to sit and wait for his food without growling (then take the muzzle off and say "OK" to tell him he can eat. You need to believe from now on that he is only a little dog and you ARE the boss, otherwise, your authority won't be very convincing to him.
I have been training dogs for years and know that this is a very difficult problem, mostly because owners don't believe that they can possibly sum up the courage to assert thier authority in such a way to their precious little dog. But you need to know that it is best for your dog to know you are the boss and respect you as his pack leader so he can become confident in you and feel more balanced (He will actually be happier and relieved, when he realizes that you are the alpha, trust me) | Would crime go down, up, or stay the same, if all guys *physically healthy enough* were subject to spankings? Would crime go down, up, or stay the same, if all guys *physically healthy enough* were subject to spankings?
I know some guys still get spanked into their Teens, and even in to their 20's. Of course, when a Guy is 22 *for instance* he is agreeing that he deserves the spanking, and submitting *otherwise in most cases it Wouldn't happen*.
So I was wondering, do you reading this, think that if, be it from "Dad" or a Court appointed person, ALL Males 18-25 were subject to a butt blistering if they screwed up, crime would go up?? or down??
Please mention your gender, age *or age range*, whether you spank sons, or were spanked growing up, your religion/religious beliefs *if any* and your country. | the repeat offender rate where caining is used on their buttocks, is less than 1%
but those nasty people have rights.
Ya well what about those they hurt
Chris T | I'm an alpha male,no one ever would guess I crave getting spanked by women,I can't believe it myself,but? as I've been careful in choosing who I've had give me the beatings[I mean beatings,with a big paddle,hard!] I have had a few close calls,I really can't eliminate this "activity" from my life,but so far every relationship that has been meaningful with potential for love,happiness etc. has been ruined by my disappointment in my girlfriend's lack of interest in my "fetish". I don't even get to me being spanked,it begins and ends with me doing "soft core" spankings to them,it goes for a while,but never progresses. I do pay [many times] various escorts,street prostitutes,etc to paddle my butt ,so thats a temporary fix,not the answer though. | How do you know you're an alpha male?
Edit:The fact that you own your own business and are tall and big,doesn't make you an alpha male.It's a psychological thing.
And to be an Alpha male doesn't mean you have to be a conceited,disrespectful,up himself jerk. |
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